December 12th, 2024

Always Better With A Friend: Short Story Series 

Disclaimer: All stories are fictional and loosely based on actual events. No client, employee or facility names have been used. If this story feels familiar to you, it is because many caregivers, families and aging loved ones feel the same. You are not alone.

The Problem: Work Causes Distance From An Aging Loved One.
The winter chill was settling in Calgary when Sarah received the call. Her father Tom, a gentle soul with a touch of dementia, had moved into a care facility. A busy professional, Sarah was set to embark on a four-month work assignment in Phoenix. The thought of leaving her father worried her, especially during these vulnerable times.

The Solution: A Friend Indeed
Remembering a conversation with her son the previous year, she recalled him mentioning a service called A Friend Indeed. It was a perfect solution. She contacted them, explaining her situation. A Friend Indeed quickly assigned a friendly, patient woman named Friend Emily to visit her father three times a week.

The Outcome: Connection, Socialization and Community
Friend Emily's visits were more than just check-ins. She was a bridge to the world outside his room. She'd encourage him to join activities like bingo or group trivia. She'd bring in small treats, like a new puzzle or a favourite snack, and engage him in conversation. She'd listen patiently to his stories, validating his feelings and experiences.
At first, Tom, a timid man, was hesitant. But Friend Emily's warmth and understanding soon melted his reserve. He began to look forward to her visits, sharing his thoughts and feelings with her. With Friend Emily's gentle encouragement, he started to step out of his comfort zone, joining group activities and meeting other residents. He knew that Friend Emily would advocate for him if he had a concern or question about his residency. 

The Conclusion: A More Fulfilling Life And Regular Updates
Sarah, who lives far away in Phoenix now, receives regular updates from Friend Emily. She knows her father is in good hands, cared for, and engaged. The weight of worry is lifted and replaced by a sense of peace.
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A Friend Indeed had done more than just provide a service. They had given Tom a Friend, a companion, and a lifeline to a fuller more engaging life.