A note from our founder

"It’s important to me that seniors are not only supported but feel valued and significant. Giving them a chance to escape from the "usualness" of the day, I see so much potential for access to creativity, fulfillment and active living with the support of a Friend. This is how we can ward off loneliness and isolation. This is how obstacles are identified then removed or reduced. This is how Quality of Life can be elevated, through Friendship and one on one time together.

As a family caregiver, I know I am able to understand things easier and support my loved one better when I come from a place of ease, spaciousness and flexibility instead of from anxiety or annoyance or guilt. I do better when I feel better. I make a point of keeping myself healthy with sleep, nutritious food, water and relaxation techniques. I remember that caregiving is a marathon and not a sprint."

Robyn Pearson, founder A Friend Indeed

When it comes to you and your loved one, can you relate?

  • You are feeling stretched thin from trying to be in all places at all times.
  • You can’t seem to “win”. You have guilt when you are with your loved one and you have guilt when you are away.
  • You wonder how your loved one is really doing in a care facility or at home alone.
  • You want your loved one to be more active and engaged in their day, not just stay in their room or by themselves.
  • You're going out of town/away and fear that your loved one will need help when you're away.
  • You don’t want your loved one to feel like they have been dumped off in “that place”.
  • You feel the responsibility has been put all on you and you haven’t done this before.
  • Your loved one is calling on only you.
  • They are not as active or social as they were before.
  • They are not as engaged in their interests anymore.
  • They are limiting themselves, causing their world to shrink around them, increasing the risk of isolation and loneliness without them even realizing it.

The role of a caretaker is a lot to take on

Recognize the challenges, and realize you’re not alone

Good on you for reaching out for greater clarity and for some help. Explore your options and learn what's available for you and your loved one.
You don’t have to do it all on your own. For the love and sake of your loved one, you can’t jeopardize your own health and well-being.
You’ve got this!  Remember, you will make the best decisions for your loved one and for you. It's what you do!

A trusted Friend to lean on

You know someone special is with your loved one. You'll know how they are really doing. You'll have someone to talk things over with and to give you ideas and suggestions so you don't feel alone. Your energy will return and the guilt that you wrestle with will release.

Having true peace of mind means your own visits with your loved one will once again focus on the two of you, instead of all the errands and concerns that were wearing you out. You won’t have to take time off work because your loved one has an appointment. Your loved one will appreciate and respond to a more relaxed and happier you and in turn, you will see your loved one relaxed and happier more often.  Get to know us...

Keep you connected, even when you can’t be there

You will have a visit summary from each of our visits to keep you up to date on any changes as well as the fun your loved one is having with their Friend. Having a documented history to refer to and discuss with your care team/doctor will help you all stay on the same page and more effectively plan next steps.
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Back to Living Life Again

The variety that comes from socializing with someone other than family, can open new experiences and excitement, sharing treasured stories to someone new. Your loved one will feel respected and valued—exactly as they are.  They will have access to activities that they enjoy and the freedom to go places with their Friend one on one.

Your loved one will have opportunities to escape from the usualness of the day. Getting lost in the enjoyment and fun of the time together with their Friend, away from the schedules and restrictions, the perceived boredom and monotony. Opportunities for reminiscing, storytelling and making new memories with their Friend, feeling good in the moment (regardless if it might be forgotten later on). Looking for the Next step?